ARY’s block buster drama serial has been touching hearts across the world. So, what’s the hype all about?
You are deeply mistaken if you think it’s about the star cast. The real essence of this Pakistani drama serial is a myriad of life lessons and survival strategies for the modern times. The most impressive angle of the drama is its relevance to the youth in Pakistan. After a long period of hopelessly typical drama serials airing on most of Pakistani channels, Kabhi Mei Kabhi Tum (KMKT) has become an inspiration for youth.
KMKTs Career Lessons for Gen Z
Let’s recap the key take aways and career lessons for the modern world youth,
1. Reflect On Who You Are and What You Can Achieve
We have all been a fan of Mustafa’s character development. From being a laidback video gamer, to getting recognized as a gaming genius, he came a long way.
There were so many instances when he was too careless and disappointed in himself, that Mustafa gave up on his talents, and didn’t even bother to find his true passion. Mustafa would have ended up wasting his intellect, and talent if his life didn't push him to the limits.
What does this tell?
If you want to be successful at life, earn money, and gain respect, you must know yourself! Because you may or may not have a Sharjeena to do the job for you. You must constantly make an internal reflection, and ask yourself regarding what you like to do, who you want to be, and what are the strengths you can polish in life.
2. Never underestimate Your Worth
The world is a brutal place for those who do not know of their own worth. Mustafa believed the world when they told him he was a failure. He made himself worthless in his own eyes too. When he said “I am a certified dheet (obstinate)”, many of us laughed. But did we see the real essence of this mere dialogue? Mustafa’s true self had been overshadowed by his societally influenced personality. So much, that it took another person to shake him up, and encourage him to see the worth of his own potential. If Mustafa was confident about himself, maybe he would’ve worked hard in game development earlier. Instead, he struggled for all of us to learn from his mistakes.
If you like to do something, be bold. Think of creative ways to see what you can do to sell your skills correctly.
3. Don’t Give Up on What You’re Passionate About
So many of us give up on our interests, hobbies, and our passions. Why? Because we are mostly unaware of how these interests define our strength, and set the stage for who we can become.
Remember when Sharjeena said, “They stole your work, they can never steel your talent”, she was right! It was his talent that earned him DanMusa and the investment from Dubai.
Bad experiences should not hinder your growth. In fact, they should make you learn and grow.
4. It Is Not Easy To Start Unconventional Careers
It is not easy to start unconventional careers. When you take a path to success, that others are unfamiliar with, people might throw stones at you. But imagine, surviving it all courageously, and becoming successful. And then have these very people clap for you and chant your inspiring story.
You may face backlash at first. You will definitely face obstacles and failures along the way. But that will be worth it. When you do something you love, and put boundless efforts into it, you will find success.
Do not hold back bcz of what the society thinks about your work. And also, do not do something others expect you to do if you know you will be very good at something else!
5. Shortcuts Don’t Last
Gen Z is a big fan of short cuts and quick fixes. We want to work less, earn more, and be successful in the blink of an eye. That doesn’t happen. And if you try doing that, you’re likely to end up using unfair means. Soon enough your castle built of cards, will come crumbling down. If you don’t believe me, ask Adeel how he ended up in jail despite being meticulously intelligent!
Success is a combination of hard work and smart work.
So, buckle up, and do not be conned by sayings like, “Work smarter, not harder”.
6. Align Your Career with Your Aptitude
You know why Adeel was a success and Mustafa ended up being a success?
When you dive deeply into the layers of the personalities of both the brothers, you find out that Adeel was a perfectionist, numerically intelligent, and a straight A student. So he worked in a structured environment, where his exact skill set and innate personality fit perfectly. Ultimately, he ended up gaining recognition as well as prestige. Even if Mustafa was academically studious, he wouldn’t have been successful in the place of Adeel.
Meanwhile, Mustafa was a laid back tech savvy. He was creative, innovative, and imaginative. He combined all these personality aspects, with his expertise on programming. And then started his career as a game developer. Ultimately, he ended up making record breaking games. Now, Adeel could also not have ever done what Mustafa did, just like Mustufa couldn't be an expert at Adeels job.
This drama has beautifully expressed the role of aptitude and personality in one’s professional success. It is high time for you to reflect on your own aptitude, analyze your personality, and make career decisions accordingly. In fact, it is advisable that you prefer professional guidance in order to match your degrees and careers with your personality and aptitude.
7. Find Out What You Do the Best and Get Someone to Pay You for It
Yes, you read it right. Now read it again!
8. Balance Work and Life
Here comes a sad reality check!
We mostly associate success with only a career, and the money we make. But that is not the recipe for a happy and fulfilled life. If you follow all the right steps, but end up lonely when you are at the destination, is that really a success.
You will truly succeed if people who support you during the journey, also celebrate with you when you reach the destination. You may go faster if you go alone, but you will go far if you go together. And succeeding together isn’t about chasing success relentlessly. Going together towards a destination means a balanced professional and personal life. A life in which you chase excellence while cherishing the moments you spend with your loved ones.
It is heartbreaking to see Mustafa struggle so much, and then realizing how his absence strained his relationship. A work life balance is what you really need, if you wish to lead a fuller life.
Conclusion
In a fast-paced world, the lessons from Kabhi Mein, Kabhi Tum remind us that career success isn’t just about ambition or skill—it’s about knowing yourself, valuing your strengths, persevering through setbacks, and keeping life in balance. These insights, though dramatized, resonate with real challenges faced by young professionals today. By applying these principles, we can build fulfilling careers and navigate life with purpose and resilience.
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